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Why people don’t want to get married Early these days

A few decades ago child marriage was contagious in society. People do marriages of their children and that was usual in society. But now if you think that you don’t want to get married soon you are not alone. For a few years, the marriage rate in this country is reducing by every passing year. Most people don’t want early weddings just because of their own reasons and justification. Through a research report, it was found that one in every seven people don’t want to do early marriages. Everyone has his reasons for not having a marital relationship in early age. Also, some feel shy to say that they do not want to get married too early so in this article I am sharing some reasons that will generally help you out overcome your fear of being expressive to your parents about your marriage decisions.

 

Reasons for some people why don’t they want to get married early:-

As it is a fast-moving world and everything is happening very fast so the people have also become super fast in their relationships and commitments, but it doesn’t mean that they are also quick in getting married. Conversely, the rate of marriages or you can say happy marriages are going down and down by passing days. So there could be several reasons why people don’t want to get married early.
The following are some reasons for most of the people due to which they don’t want to get married early

  • More focus on career
  •  Financial issues
  • Long term committed relationships
  • The feeling of being constrained
  • Don’t want to become parents early

 

More focus on career may stops you to get married early :-

Several people are normally much oriented about their career. They have big career goals for their future. Most people don’t want to get married early just because they are and want to be focused more on their careers. They do not want to divide their energy. Also, not because marriage takes time and attention and they can’t give. Some people want to become a successful person before marriage that’s why they are more likely to delay their marriage. Now the young generation delays marriages until they become a successful person.

 

Financial issues refrain people to get married early:-

Nowadays marriage becomes more expensive. Because of poverty, most people can’t even afford a pack of green tea. They are not able to fulfill their needs. In this case, most people don’t want to take responsibility for another person. Some people do not want to share their finances with any other person. That’s why they deny to do marriage early. Delaying marriages because of financial issues is relatively new and growing at a higher rate. Also, some girls having financial crisis are having delayed marriages not by choice but by fortune.

 

Long term committed relationships:-

Long term commitment means an interpersonal relationship between two people. In which two people based upon an agreed commitment. Long-term commitment is normal in most foreign countries. Most couples live together without any legal bond between them. For them, there is not much difference between marriage and long-term relationships. So, for them, it’s not a big issue whether they are not having a legal relation. Just because of this some people don’t think about legalizing their commitment and they prefer living together without marriage.

 

Feeling of being constrained:-

Some people think that if they will tie knots with someone, they will lose their freedom and will get into restrictions and boundaries. They think that marriage comes with several rules and responsibilities. This reason pushes people to delay their marriage. Some people also don’t want early marriage because they think that if they will have a marital relationship, they will have to fulfil the responsibilities of another grown-up individual. They never want to tie down by obligations. They want freedom which is to live the life you want what you want, spend time with those people whom you like. That is why they don’t want to get married early.

 

Don’t want to become parents early:-

Some people don’t want to become parents early that’s why they think they are not a perfect fit marriage. They think that becoming a parent is more difficult. If they become parents they will not be eligible to fulfill their responsibilities towards their child. They think the hat they are not much responsible and don’t even know the basics of parenting. That is also the reason due to which most people don’t want to get married early.

 

Conclusion:-

Some people have to change their thoughts about marriage, and that’s OK. There is plenty of time to bring in determinations about the coordinated fate of partners. Some people want to wait until they become settled financially. Or some people don’t want to share their income. Some people can’t bear the expenses of the wedding. All these reasons are above all but most of the people have to change their mind about marriage. People may judge or rush your decision, but you must do whatever you want to and think is right. Because we are always changing our thoughts and adapting, and growing new opinions

Rabiya Younas
I am a lahore-based freelance writer. I offer content writing services as it has become my passion now. My aim is to put magic in words and bind them into an engaging piece of information. I am always ready to learn new things as a lifelong learner. You can find and contact me on facebook, instagram and LinkedIn.
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